But we can start the process – against formidable odds – to get our right to marry back in Oregon. And we can do it like all fabbies do it – with a party (or at least a brunch)! Here are a couple of opportunities to party for equality:

Loads of great events this weekend. CC’s is hopping with the Double X Bear Dance/Risa Beach Party on Friday night, followed by the third installment of Haus of Gaga on Saturday night. Sunday is Superstar Divas! Red Cap parties with Portland Idol tonight, Red Cap Cares on Saturday and some happy spillover from Dykeotomy at Boxxes on Sunday. Have fun, my lovelies!

In an interview with Vibe.com on Monday, Nelsan Ellis, who plays the enigmatic character Lafayette in HBO’s True Blood, said that he supports gay marriage.

Posters and other graphic design that rocks in fabulous Portland!

In his State of the Union address just moments ago, President Obama pledged to work with the Congress and military this year to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT).

A group of local activists has started a new mixer event called Q=Mob PDX. The event is billed as a “Buycott” to support the Human Rights Campaign.